By Gary and Joy Lundberg - Deseret News - Wednesday, February
11, 2015
Time to throw out the usual and think in a different realm:
Maybe this year you can be a little bit more creative — quirky, even — in your
Valentine’s Day gift giving.
Here are seven ideas to consider.
1. Have a “card shop
date”
Plan ahead with your
partner and set a date to meet at your local Hallmark card shop — or any other
store with loads of valentines. Start looking for a special valentine for each
other. No peeking. When you’ve both found one you like, don’t show it.
Buy it. Then, stop at the local ice cream parlor, write a message on the card
and give your cards to each other over a shared banana split. This takes the
pressure off and can be a lot of silly fun.
2. Put a gift in a box
of Cracker Jacks
Remember
finding prizes in the Cracker Jack box as a kid? Prizes were fun then,
and they still are. Time to be a kid again. Write a note surrounded by tiny
hearts that tells your spouse to look in a certain place. Then, bury the note
inside the Cracker Jack box and hide a gift in the place you chose. Flowers, a necklace, a clever key chain, a
favorite aftershave lotion — whatever you know your spouse would enjoy. Then,
let your mate know there’s a special surprise inside his or her Cracker Jacks.
3. Cut and paste from a magazine or online
3. Cut and paste from a magazine or online
If you’re the wife, find a picture of a real
“hunk” of a guy (you know, muscles galore, bulging on purpose). Cut it out,
glue a picture of your husband’s face into the picture, and paste it all on a
clean white sheet of paper. Write “This is you! I would recognize you anywhere.
Always my Valentine!” If you’re the husband, find a picture of a beautiful
woman, attractively dressed in a glamorous pose, and do the same.
4. Make heart-shaped
pancakes — with a twist
Get up a little early on Valentine’s Day and
make pancakes — only this time, secretly cut one of them through lengthwise and
insert a message inside the pancake. Any loving message will do: “I could eat
you up!” or “You are delicious to me!” After your honey reads the message,
plant a kiss on him or her that will be remembered all day.
5. Make a string of
hearts with a special message
On each heart, write what it is you love about
your mate. Tape each heart to a long ribbon with this note at the beginning:
“The many reasons why I love you.” Here are a few suggestions to get you
started.
- Because you give the best back rubs ever
- Because you are so beautiful/handsome
- Because your kisses make me tingle
- Because you are so cute with our kids
- Because you would go to the moon and back for me
The list goes on. The
longer and more specific, the better.
Have the final heart say “Happy Valentine’s Day! I love you!” Hang the string
of hearts where you know your spouse will see it at just the right time.
6. Make a card out of
candy bars
Buy several candy bars with names you can use in a sentence. Then, write a message on a poster board, gluing on candy bars in place of certain words. For example: “The day I married you was my best PAYDAY. Each day is like a beautiful SYMPHONY. No question about it, I SKORed big time when we said ‘I do.’ My heart’s been all a-SKITTLES ever since. I’m BONKERS over you.”
7. Go on a blind date
Put a blindfold on your honey and take her or
him out to a secret place for dinner. Leave the blindfold on until you are
seated at the table. Make sure to pick the type of food your spouse loves —
someplace you haven’t been to for awhile. When dinner is almost done, bring out
a special gift or card to wish your partner a happy Valentine’s Day.
Whatever you do to celebrate Valentine’s day,
do something. Let this be a fun time to give some special attention
to your spouse. Whether you do something quirky or go with the usual, have fun.
These little things spark up a marriage, making it better than ever.
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